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In relationships, whether business, personal, or
otherwise, we sometimes suffer losses.
Sometimes, an employer
does us wrong. I've had it happen to me: Former employees gather around
to sue the former employer. You have a choice to join in the lawsuit or
go on with your life and forget about it. What's my advice?
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Unless you've been wronged in a
way that has cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars, my advice is to let it
go. I know someone who went the other way, and put together a claim for
workman's compensation, a claim that he was unfit for work, built a long list of
bad things the former company did, and finally, after years of negotiating with
lawyers, won a settlement of about $1 Million dollars. The lawyers took 30% of
the settlement. Uncle Sam took another 30%. What did that leave him with?
Between $300 and $400. Of which he spent $60,000 on a new BMW. So, if you factor
all of that in, had he just kept working and got back into another position, he
would have actually earned more money by working, than by all the maneuvering
and stress associated with the lawsuit.
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because of a past belief or set of circumstance which causes negative thinking
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anymore?
What relationship has troubled you?
What big change are you avoiding? Are you feeling more comfort
in unhappy familiarity rather than delving into unknown territories?
What career changes, perhaps even a total change of direction,
could bring about more satisfaction?
It’s time to let go of the past, to release that which no
longer serves our growth, and to rebuild upon a new foundation. We are all
healers, and this is a great opportunity to transform our lives in a way that
will nourish our soul.
Some times, if you can let go
of those things that are BLOCKING you today, you will find that releasing the
energy frees you up to do so much more. Resentment is like a ballast in the
belly of an airplane. Holding onto something from the past will weigh you down
and keep you from flying to your highest heights of success.
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relationship, or even family in order to create the life we
want. However, most letting go is not usually burning a bridge, but
often letting go is an inside job: letting go might mean changing our
belief pattern, a way we process emotion, or how we view life.
It is important to take inventory of our positives and
negatives prior to ever making a decision to let go of the past. I
recommend getting out a notebook and writing these lists down.
Who and what is affecting us positively? Who and what is
affecting us negatively? If a person, job, or family member -- even a
lover -- is putting us down frequently, then we may be wise to address the issue
with them and/or either create change in that relationship or distance ourselves
from them.
One way to let go of the past is to remove or revise our
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